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I feel restless at night and cannot fall asleep as easily as when I was younger. What seems to be wrong with me?

This question I hear often — it is as if out of sudden you lose your ability to fall asleep and sleep well. However, finding a solution isn’t easy because nothing significant has happened in your life.

I've been there too. What kept waking me up was a chronic back pain, but while I knew why I couldn't sleep, I didn't know what caused my back issue or how to get back into sleep.

Doctors couldn't help either — I followed treatments, did exercises and got pain-killers — with no lasting results.

As I’m curious at heart, I’m always looking for new and better ways to do things, and so I started to study how the nervous system learns and organizes movements. Finally, I was able to find out how to fix my back, and also, I discovered how certain gentle movements could make me feel calm, and fall asleep more easily — easier than ever before. This Inspired me to developed the Moving into Sleep Method, and start to teach people to overcome sleep disorders and insomnia.

Why it Seems as if You Start Losing Your Ability to Sleep as You Age?

When you cannot fall asleep, the core problem is in the neurophysical system, which is unable to perform its sleep-function. In an optimal situation:

  • You wake up at certain time
  • You start feeling sleepy at certain time
  • You fall asleep with ease at certain time

This is how you imagine your sleep-ability would always be. But as you age, many factors start creating negative neurological stress.

What causes negative stress, can be an endless list, including everything from physical to emotional challenges, cultural, sociological, work-related, environmental issues and so on.

What makes the situation even more complicated is that the negative stress load is often a result of multiple factors. Therefore, it can take much time to find out, understand, and fix the issues, before you can notice your sleep improving. For me it took years before I could understand what caused my back pain, which was a slightly twisted posture I had developed in my childhood and teen-years when I studied violin, often 8 hours every day. The twist was minimal, yet enough to cause major issues years later. Luckily, I was able to find a solution, and learn to understand how the system works, so that I now can help others.

To solve the situation, I would advice to do to things:

2 Ways to Get Your Sleep Back

The first thing to do is to detect what causes negative stress and find ways to prevent this from happening. The second way, is to learn how to do sleep-inducing movements that can help you in promoting calmness in the brain so that the sleep-drive can do its work in a normal way.

My Top 5 Tips to Promote Sleep Quality

  1. Diet – choose quality food, made with care from quality ingredients, to promote digestive and metabolic health.
  2. Be active - do moderate exercises, at least 30 minutes walking, to promote physical health.
  3. Be creative - develop skills, and learn new ones, to promote brain health.
  4. Calm down – learn how to calm down your body and mind, to promote harmony in the neurophysical system.
  5. Be orderly - do daily activities (wake up, eat, work, relax, sleep) following a schedule, to promote time-related physiological processes, like digestion and sleep.

Doing Sleep-inducing Movements to boost Your Sleep-drive

While the above tips help you in promoting sleep quality, it might take long before you see improvements, and it is tonight that you want to get sleep.

This is when you can do sleep-inducing movements. The idea is to do specific gentle movements that evoke calming processes in the brain and literally move you into sleep.

This is how I induce sleep every time I need sleep, and so do many others who have learned my method through my books, my workshops and online courses.

As a self-treatment, the Moving into Sleep Method is based on educational neuroscience. By doing gentle and subtle movements you can calm down your nervous system and fall asleep.

Thanks for reading,

Oliver

“Better sleep is  a gentle movement away”

Too high or low support will twist your neck muscles, which can affect your whole body.

If you prefer to lie on your back, make the support thinner than when you lie on your side.
Fold the towel so that your neck feels well supported and you can roll your head easily from side to side.
Note that the alignment of your neck often reflects first the way it is when you stand or sit.
Therefore, after some time, it might be necessary to adjust the hight

If you lie on your side, create a support so that your neck is in line with your spine.
Experiment with different heights, until you feel your neck is as relaxed as possible and free to move.
If necessary combine a folded towel with a flat pillow
Be aware that some pillows get compressed during the night and won't give you consistent support.
A folded towel, on the other hand, maintains its shape very well.
Once you have created the right support for your head, move it a little backward, so that nothing or as little as possible touches your cheek.
A gentle touch on the cheek triggers a rooting reflex, which activates the neck muscles to turn your head.
Ideally, the core support is under the side of the skull, behind the ear, where you can find the center of balance of your head.
Note also that your neck doesn't need any support. Therefore, avoid squeezing a soft pillow under your neck as it will bother you by limiting body circulation and free movement.

The support you get is firm, yet comfortable and the flat surface promotes comfort and ease in movement.
Some weeks ago, my mother-in-law told she had a stiff neck every morning. When I asked her how she supported her head, she told having a basic, soft, and quite a thick pillow. I then told her how I support my head with a folded bath-towel, sometimes combined with a thin pillow. This allows me to adjust the support so that my head is well balanced and free to move. It is a great solution, functional and cheap.
As always — thanks for reading.

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